Researching for new Book

Dear Reader,
The most amazing aspect of relationships is the opportunity to grow. Becoming a good person with assets, attributes like honesty, integrity and kindness are easy when we decide to become them. I personally have found that manipulating a person to gain acceptance, love, or security leaves me with a bad taste in mouth. Furthermore I have to really concentrate on the lies I have been telling in order to keep the relationship alive. That is way to much work, seriously who thought of that?

It stems from the fear of abandonment. Which is quite easily the most overlooked fear in relationships today. What do you think of when you read those words? Fear of Abandonment?
My first thought was, "Ha! I don't have that. I always leave first, that way I don't get hurt. I hurt them first, you see."

My second thought after another relationship ended was maybe I don't know what the hell fear of abandonment means.
So I looked it up, actually my good friend brought it to my attention and then I looked it up. Here is what I found:
http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/downloads/relationships/fear-abandonment.html

Now we are here thinking that seriously, I am in fear of abandonment. Okay, time to find the healing.

This is a great answer; having an intimate relationship with a higher power.
hmm...
more research I think
What do you think?
with love Rochelle

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